Painting Problems – Paint Cracking

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Paint cracking is a common problem, usually quite visible in older homes with a lot of layers of paint. It looks like a flattened spider web of cracks in the paint. The similar term crackling is used to refer to a fuax finishing painting technique to that is meant to resemble cracked paint found in older homes.

In modern days, while building the walls we have now we use a moisture-and mold-resistant wall panels called Sheetrock (created by US Gypsum) commonly referred to as drywall. 8′ x 4′ is the conventional panel size outside of large construction. In older days it was one of two things, gypsum board or plaster and lathe. Gypsum board is similar to drywall however it wasn’t as convenient as drywall. They were both available but gypsum was the choice for a long time.

Plaster and lathe is an old building art now quite visibly dying off as new and improved techniques have rendered the art disadvantageous. After the studs (the skeleton of the house) are laid the interior wall portion takes form and the lathe would go up. Lathe is smaller pieces of wood at about 1″ wide and 4′ long. Once the lathe is up next would come the plaster. They set up guides that are four feet apart and go vertically then apply two coats of plaster. This effectively creates a sheet of dry wall. Interestingly, while demolishing the walls in older homes you sometimes come across horse hair in the old plaster. This was mixed in to strengthen the plaster.

Cracking in all likelihood will not take place in newer construction. Modern day Sheetrock should be primed with water based paint. Oil may be used in spite of the modern movement towards reducing oil based paint usage due to environmental issues. The oil based paint has a long history with the artisans of paint. The makeup of oil based paints has drawbacks. Positives reside around durability and the leveling properties of the paint as it is drying. It does take a long time for oil paint to dry, in any case oil has come a long way and is competing with water based paints.

Immediate attention would not be needed with new construction concerning cracking. New construction is defaulted merely because of the amount of layers of paint that could be on the wall and when the change from lead based to oil based to water based paints occurred!

Other forms of cracking do appear, they are referred to as “alligatoring”. “Alligatoring” is given its name for a reason, it looks like alligator skin. The most banal example would be exterior homes where far too much paint has been applied through the eons and or 10 to 20 years. Even if all coats were prepped and primed properly sooner or later the chemical change in the makeup of each consecutive layer of paint lead, oil, water, will eventually create problems. If you can get past that I bet Mother Nature will eat away at the foundation of the paint just like she forms our great mountain ranges. Eventually hot, cold, sun, wind, rain and snow will wear down on surfaces and create problems.

Sometimes the only way to deal with “alligatoring” is to remove all the paint, this is a timely process which involves the use of strippers and heat guns. Unfortunately, in the long run it is more cost effective to renovate. If the “alligatoring” has gotten extremely bad, there may be suspicion that the wood is deteriorating.

Cracking starts with a certain amount of coats of paint. For extreme cases the paint also will have been through the technical changes of the years. Meaning that older paint coats, possibly even before the sixties will have amassed over time, some may even contain lead. The complexities of these paints’ chemical make up as stated earlier will inevitably interact in some way. Paint has been guaranteed now days from anywhere to 25 years to infinity and beyond. That claim may be true providing it is new construction. The case study here is numerous amounts of paint, the first err could be with the first coat! Was that even primed or prepped and every consecutive coat should be scrutinized with that perspective.

One of the most recent problems would have been the switch from oil paint to water if not primed the water based paint may not adhere to the wall. What this means is that you may have a surface of paint that just sits on top of the wall. When you paint walls with water based paint you can risk a chance of cracking. Applying new water based paint to the surface will “reactivate” the other paint. Moisture will be added to the surface and that will cause the paint to expand and contract. Old and aged paint can become brittle and the flexibilities of that paint are lost and the paint can crack. It also can bubble and whole surfaces can just fall off the wall.

One of the ways to remedy these potentials for cracks on old homes would be to go back to the old wheel. Break out the oil paint! Oil has the right properties to re-seal the substrate, water based paint are consider a soft paint and oil are considered hard.

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What is Ribbon Dancing And How Do I Ribbon Dance?

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Ribbon dancing is a style of dance done while holding a long, thick satin ribbon on a stick. It has many gymnastic elements, and can be fun for participants of all ages. To ribbon dance, all you need is some music and a ribbon, which you move to the beat of the song. Though it is based on ancient Chinese choreography, people from all over the world do ribbon dancing now in many styles.

In competition, ribbon dancing is a rhythmic gymnastics event. There are standards for the stick material and length and width of the ribbon. As with any gymnastic event, there is a list of required movements that must be made at some point during your routine. They include circles, spirals and snakes, flicks, and throws.

One part of ribbon dancing that is especially difficult for newcomers to the sport is keeping the ribbon from getting twisted around their bodies or knotted in itself when performing circles or spirals.

When making your own, be aware of your own height in relation to the ribbon. If you are 5 feet tall, using a 15 foot ribbon would be incredibly difficult. Try starting with a ribbon the length of your arm span. Now you can start ribbon dancing!

The easiest move to begin with is the wave. To make a wave in your ribbon all you have to do is make a wave in your arm! (Think of the ribbon as an extension of yourself.) Begin with your hand straight out in front of you or to your side. Flicking your wrist and moving your whole arm up and down in a wave, watch your ribbon begin to follow the same path. Moving your arm further up and down or faster will affect the speed and size of your ribbons waves. When you are comfortable with this, try moving on to other ribbon dances by bringing your arm overhead, waving it side to side, or walking, dancing or running while waving your ribbon.

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How Much Time Does It Take to Settle an Estate?

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Settling an estate after someone dies can take a considerable length of time to complete, usually longer than you anticipate. Can it be settled in 6 months? Maybe, but it’s unlikely. 12 months? Sometimes, but in my experience it takes 12 – 18 months to settle most middle-class estates. “But I just have to cancel a few pensions and close the bank account”, you say. There is usually more to it than that, so without boring you with all the finer details, let’s talk about some of the time-consuming tasks.

The funeral is over now, family members have gone back home, and everyone is beginning to settle back in to their daily routine. But not the executor… that person’s role has just started. Since the will likely needs to be probated let’s begin with generating a list of assets and liabilities, including the values as of the date of death. This is an iterative process, requiring you to communicate with numerous companies and, since most of these companies require a copy of the death certificate, one will have to be mailed to them, or you will have to attend in person. Here are a few questions to get you thinking:

  • Where are the bank accounts, and what are the balances?
  • What is the outstanding balance on the mortgage of the house?
  • Are the monthly condo strata fees up to date?
  • Have property taxes been deferred?
  • What is the value of the Canada Savings Bonds and/or GIC’s? Hint: need to determine accrued interest.
  • If the person was self-employed, what is the value of the corporate shares?
  • Are there any assets and/or debts outside of Canada, such as a home in Arizona or Florida? Don’t forget about timeshares. You may have to file for probate again in these other jurisdictions.
  • What is the coin collection worth? Art? Hockey cards? Jewelry?

OK, the list of assets & liabilities is finished and you (or your lawyer) have prepared the probate documents. In my experience the probate registry usually takes 2 – 3 months to process the documents. Sometimes sooner, but don’t bank on it.

While you’re waiting for the Grant of Probate to be issued, we can prepare the home for sale, including deciding what to do with all of the possessions. Some things can be given to family members, some can be sold, and other items will need to be thrown out. Complete any necessary work in the home, such as painting and carpet cleaning.

If the deceased was self-employed there may be a company to manage. Someone will need to oversee the staff and there may be customers requiring attention. This company likely has value, so the executor needs to ensure the value is maintained. Consider professional assistance.

The terminal income tax return will need to be filed and, possibly, a Trust return for the estate itself. Each one will take time for Canada Revenue Agency to process, and you should also request Tax Clearance Certificates, again, each taking time for CRA to process.

Well, so far, so good. Although we’ve been at it for a number of months now, at least everything is progressing. But wait! One of the children is upset because he was written out of the will, so he files a lawsuit to challenge the terms of the will. Now all bets are off because it’s anyone’s guess how long it will take to settle this estate. Don’t kid yourself… this is becoming all too common, especially with the ever-increasing value of estates.

Now it’s time to distribute the proceeds of the estate. The assets have been sold, debts paid, tax returns filed, and lawsuits settled. Before distributing the money, the beneficiaries need to pass the accounts, meaning they need to approve the expenditures. This can be quick & easy, or long & drawn out. By the way, you were maintaining detailed bookkeeping records, right? Sorry, I forgot to mention that little detail earlier.

In addition to everything described above, the executor likely has other obligations, too, such as family and work. The executor may also have to research how to settle an estate in the first place, may be uncomfortable using a computer, and might simply procrastinate. But the clock keeps ticking while the beneficiaries are waiting.

To summarize, settling an estate can take a surprisingly long time and it can be very time-consuming.

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Fabric Painting As A Career

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Fabric painting is not the most conventional of careers to choose from; in fact most would relegate it to the hobbies listing, an obscure craft. Some would ask, “Who would want to spend their career with fabric paint?” But think about it; if the career were not a significant one, we would all be sitting on bland, colorless and design free furniture, we would probably all be dressed up in flour sacks and staring at blank walls. Of course that’s a slight exaggeration, but you get the point, I’m sure.

As a career fabric painter, you have the opportunity to add creative and sometimes colorful value to the world we live in. Although fabric painting can be a laborious pursuit it has become thousands of times easier to reproduce fabric painting on numerous mediums. With the advent of digital art, reproduction artwork can be placed on cups, plates, textiles, shoes, wood and more.

The prospects are actually quite exciting when you think about it. Rather than designers buying that blase fabric for their fashion accessories project, you can now offer them custom fabrics, specially created for their specific use; something unique to their collection. Designers can now say bye, bye to boring; and hello to happy. Their clients will love you for it.

Artists can now create their masterpieces and have them duplicated for short run reproduction just as easy as or perhaps easier than it would have been to process the art through the traditional fabric mills. This is great but there are still some major manufacturing companies that hire artists to create hand painted designs for their new collections. They then take the artists designs and produce them on various types of fabrics.

One career that is easily integrated and is an offshoot of fabric painting is, screen printing, which in itself is a vast field. Traditionally, screen printing has been viewed as the answer to producing tee shirts for schools and casual wear. Today the screen printing industry is booming as artists are getting even more creative and adding flair to their designs.

The sizes of screens have grown from a little bitty square on the front of your shirt to a large format screen designed for all over tee shirt design. Still there are others who use this screen printing method to create custom yardage for sale and for creating their own line of goods.

Such artwork was initially painted on fabric and later printed on garments for toddlers and adults alike. Just as the original was embellished with studs, stones, sequins and glitter, so too are the creations of the silk screen artist. The beauty of course is once the original design has been developed on fabric and screens created, the design can be produced in unlimited colors, sizes and of course quantities.

On the flip side of the screen printing issue are the embellishers who are also fabric painters in their own right. These artists take a generally basic design and customize it, giving it the oomph it may have needed. This is done many times with fabric paint, rhinestones, mirrors, ribbons and a host of other accessories.

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Wassily Kandinsky and His Many Styles

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Wassily Kandinsky is the artist responsible for painting the first strictly abstract works. Born in Moscow on December 16, 1866, Mr. Kandinsky grew up in Odessa before enrolling in the University of Moscow. He chose to study economics and law and was very successful in these fields. He was even offered a professorship at the University of Dorpat, but began painting when he turned 30.

Anatomy, life-drawing and sketching were his three painting studies. When he started painting he chose to move to Munich where he studied at Anton Azbe’s private school before moving to the Academy of Fine Arts. He returned to Moscow in 1914. Wassily Kandinsky wasn’t happy with the official art theories in Moscow so he chose to return to Germany in 1921 where he taught art and architecture. When the Bauhaus school of art closed in 1933, Kandinsky emigrated to France and became a citizen in 1939. He lived there until his death five years later.

Wassily Kandinsky always loved art. In later years, he would remember being stimulated by and fascinated with color when a child. This love of psychology and colour symbolism continued as he grew and he studied folk art of the region. These influences show up in his early works. He was also influenced by the works of Richard Wagner and H.P. Blavatsky. Blavatsky was a proponent of theosophy which believes that creation is a geometrical progression. This is seen by a descending series of triangles, circles and squares. In addition, he was visually influenced by John Varley and his illustrations.

In Kandinsky’s early works, one will also see elements of pointillism as well as Fauvism. He uses a flat, luminescent surface for depth of field and color as an expression of subject matter rather than objective nature. Most of these paintings featured towns and landscapes rather than human figures. The most notable exceptions were Riding Couple and Sunday, Old Russia. Intentional disjunction, seen in The Blue Rider, also delineates Kandinsky’s early works. Here the viewer participates in creating the artwork. This style was a forerunner of his later works.

Wassily Kandinsky later moved to the use of geometrical figures in his works. This is unlike the suprematism and constructivism movements which were popular at the time. When he moved to Paris, he was even more isolated from the general art world. He continued to paint abstracts while others were focused on cubism and impressionism. In his latter years, he combined elements seen in his previous works. His two last major works used this technique and were simply called Composition IX and Composition X. With so many techniques used over his lifetime, you may find you love some pieces while disliking others. It’s all in the eye of the beholder.

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Does Tai Chi Have Belts Or A Belt Rank System?

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There is no central organization or federation controlling the study of tai chi chuan (taijiquan), and as such, there is no standard belt-ranking system. While for whatever reasons this unsettles some people, it is actually quite liberating, allowing a high degree of flexibility and expression – as any art should. And yes, tai chi is an art. Some place it in the realm of martial arts, some in the realm of healing arts, some say it is an art of self-development, while others maintain that it is some combination of these.

Tai chi grew out of Taoist philosophy in China. Taoism is the oldest philosophy of China and formed the earliest foundations of its culture, folk religions, food, art and sciences. Taoism seeks to understand and work with the patterns of nature. And like nature, Taoism doesn’t “see itself” needing any manmade federation or group standardizing any of its millennia-old beliefs or practices. While some standardization has occurred recently in China, especially in the tournament practice of tai chi or the teaching of qigong, this is a modern endeavor, only observed under the current communist regime.

As the old joke goes amongst traditional kung fu and tai chi masters: “Main purpose of belt is to hold up pants!”

However, some schools have adapted their own version of a belt ranking system to help their students celebrate their progress and accomplishments. The traditional style Chinese uniform does not use a belt like the Korean and Japanese martial arts. Instead, we use a satin sash. It is wider, longer, lighter and more flexible. In Chinese it’s called a “yao dai.” Some kung fu schools have a sash system standardized within their particular style or family lineage of kung fu. The same can be said of tai chi.

While I cannot speak for what other schools do, I can tell you that they are all different. As an example, in my school, I believe in basing a sash system in something that follows patterns seen in nature instead of man-made sash rankings. This is because tai chi is rooted in the philosophy of Taoism. Taoism recognizes man as being a small part of nature instead of being someone whose job it is to conquer nature. If you look at nature, you can see a progressive organization of colors by way of the rainbow. It is the “perfect” occurrence of yin and yang – the yin of the rain and the yang of the sun – that allows us to observe the varying wavelengths of light. As such, I recommend this as a nice tai chi school alternative for a belt-ranking system.

A good sash ranking system allows the students to more clearly see that they are making progress and it allows the teacher to immediately understand what concepts and at which levels to properly teach large groups of students. It also allows the students to feel like they are relating more closely to nature instead of a formal organization. In addition to the sash being a ranking tool, a good traditional tai chi teacher can also share knowledge of how the sash can be used as a tool for special exercises and martial arts purposes.

As tai chi enthusiasts, we should continue to embrace the freedom that its philosophy grants us instead of arguing and fussing over how to standardize a belt-ranking system that is then foisted upon everyone else.

After all, let’s not get too attached to an object whose major purpose is to just hold up our pants!

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Want to Become a Make-Up Artist? Know It’s Pros and Cons, Make Up Schools, and Courses

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Make up is used in various fields like television, magazines, theatres, photography, cosmetic industry and many more. The make-up artists change your appearance by applying cosmetics on your face. They make you look good and feel good. They change your over-all personality. They can make you look younger or older. They can cover up your flaws. And so, this profession is in high demand and is popular especially in the field of television.

If you have decided it to be your profession you must know its pros and cons, various make up courses and schools available.

Pros of being a make-up artist

• You do not have to undergo a 9 to 6 desk job.

• You can start your business or work in a team. You do not need to work under someone else.

• You meet different people daily and can develop your own network.

• It gives you an inner satisfaction of making people look good. You bring happiness to people.

• It allows you to experiment with your creative ideas.

• The results are quick

• You can meet celebrities and visit new places.

• This profession offers flexible hours of working.

Cons of being a make-up artist

• There is no schedule time for working

• Competition is very tough

• Many think that people who take up this profession are “good-for-nothing” kind of people

• It takes time to develop a career in this profession

• It takes time in creating your own network of clients.

How to Become a Make-up Artist?

A formal certification in make-up artistry is not essential. You can become a make-up artist by learning the techniques yourself or you can go to a make up school or can work in a cosmetic company. If you want to learn it on your own, a lot of constant research is required. You should be aware what kind of make-up is in fashion. You should read books on make-up artistry, understand different styles. To train yourself, you can experiment your make-up artistry on your friends. A make-up artist with certification will always be preferred over others. So, there are many make-up schools that provide the necessary certification. Here you will get a formal education and training on this profession which will be very beneficial in the long run. By working in a cosmetic company, you will be exposed to various make-up products and their uses. You will also get a chance to apply makeup on your customers.

Makeup Courses

There are various courses available like part time make-up; fashion and photographic; stage, media and special effects; fashion, theatre and media makeup diploma.

It is very easy to become a make-up artist but if you want to master this art, take up as many make up courses as you can. It will enhance your skills. This profession is very rewarding and is in high demand. Today everyone wants to look beautiful.

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Popular Japanese Tattoo Meanings, Symbolism and Designs

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There has been a phenomenal growth of traditional Japanese tattoo designs in the past few years. It used to be that tattoos were relegated to the Yakuza or Japanese gangs and the criminals in the society. Just the site of a tattoo used to and still can strike fear into people. However, Japan is a rapidly changing country and they are starting to see the value in tattoos and more and more people have a deep respect for them. For most tattoo artists and tattoo enthusiasts alike Japanese designs have always been sought after. Here are some Japanese tattoo meanings and design ideas to help give you a guide of some possibilities if you are interested in getting such a design.

Cherry Blossom Tattoos

For the Japanese the cherry blossom is seen to represent life itself. The flower is a thing of great beauty. It is strong in that is pushes itself and blooms in harsh conditions and climates and often comes out when the snow is first melting. Yet it is paradoxically fragile at the same time. It is fragile because it will only last a few days and then it will fall from the tree and land in the snow. The Japanese view this as a representation of life itself. Life should be lived to extreme beauty and everyday should be lived to it’s fullest. Yet one must always be aware of the possibility of death and therefore with the eventuality of death live life even more fully. This is a great tattoo and a symbol that is laden with powerful reminders and a great guide to how each individual should live their life.

Koi Fish Tattoos

Koi fish are probably the second most powerful symbol in tattoo designs in general but also fro the Japanese. Koi fish can been seen in front of almost every temple throughout Japan. The myth states that the Koi fish swim back up stream against the current to eventually read a bridge or a gate. If they can make it to the gate they are turned into dragons and magically fly away to start a new life. The symbolism behind this design is one of perseverance which is a very deep and important concept for the Japanese. In fact they have many more words to describe perseverance, effort and sticking with something in the language then we do in English.

Hannya Masks

Hannya masks are scary looking and demonic masks. The mask comes from the famous Kabuki plays in Japan and it depicts a women who has been consumed with rage over a lover or someone that has not returned her love. There are different variations as each Kabuki play has a different interpretation. At any rate these masks represent a jealous women. However, they have been widely used in Japanese tattoos and also here in the west. When they are used in tattoo in it is believed that they will ward of evil spirits and bring good luck to the person wearing it. Japanese will also sometimes but these up for display high in the room of their house to ward off evil spirits.

Samurai

Samurai of course lived by the code of Bushido. There is not enough room here to full explain the code of Bushido but it deals with living life to the fullest, being prepared to die in service and being loyal and strong. The concepts of Bushido are pretty much at the heart of all Japanese values and morals and also what is taught to most young kids over and over again through stories. You could say the code of Bushido is the heart of the Japanese culture and beliefs. Samurai’s and samurai tattoos of course are the best symbol of these beliefs.

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What Are the Best Paint Colors For Hospital Walls?

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There’s hardly a secret anymore that human behavior is highly influenced by colors. Scientific studies have proven that our emotions and mood are affected when surrounded by particular colors. Some cause us to be more aggressive, whereas others have a soothing effect on us. From psychologists to interior designers, everybody seems fascinated with the phenomenon.

No wonder then that when it comes to paints, specialists are extremely careful to make the right choice. As their ideas come as colors do, in a wide variety, ultimately the only thing they have to consider is the appropriateness of their vision. For instance, a hospital room wouldn’t be painted in the same shades as a private residence’s living room. The patients would it find difficult to cope with some red painted walls instead of the usual white, green or blue ones.

We all may have in contact, one way or another, with the imposing, intimidating places which are hospitals. Either as patients or visitors, we are most certainly overwhelmed by their presence. But, once inside, hospitals have this huge power of conveying a sensation of calm and peace. How do they manage to do that? It’s simple to find the answer by just taking a quick look at the walls and noticing the colors they are painted in.

Hospital walls are usually covered in colors such as white, green and blue. There is an explanation behind these choices and it has to do with the psychological effects these colors have.

White is the most common color to be seen on a hospital wall. And that is due to the peaceful and calm mood it provides. Other reason for choosing it is the fact that it denotes cleanness. It implies sterility, which has the effect of making patients feel reassured. This is also why doctors and nurses wear white uniforms.

Blue and green are considered to be the most relaxing and refreshing colors, promoting peaceful atmosphere which encourages concentration. Designers, psychologists and feng-shui experts, they all tend to consider that shades of blues and greens make us fell calmer, more balanced and less emotional. Because green has a calming effect on our nerves, hospital waiting rooms and even psychiatric wards are painted in this color. And surgeons wear green scrubs for the same reason. As for blue, it has often been noticed that children in pain are put in hospital rooms painted in light blue due to its healing effect it conveys.

When coming inside a hospital, the general atmosphere must make us feel reassured and calm. Before knowing anything about the staff’s professionalism, our worried look will check for visible signs that we will be well taken for. And the hospital’s walls, either white, green or blue, are our first impression.

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Love Avoidance: The Confusing Feelings of Codependency

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In a codependent relationship, obsessive love can trump a healthy, balanced partnership. Often times, the individual who exhibits codependent tendencies may protect his or her own feelings by becoming love avoidant. The irony is that as this individual emotionally withdraws to protect her own feelings, she will go to great lengths to win her partners approval. If you feel that your relationship is unhealthy, a good first step is to examine it for signs of obsession.

Your own feelings are the most important component in evaluating your relationship. You are the most qualified person to tell if your love is healthy or not. Even people who do not have love avoidant or obsessive tendencies can have codependent aspects in their relationships. The difference is the degree of codependency; in healthy relationships, partners learn to adapt to each other without sacrificing their own emotional needs.

A common characteristic of codependents is they often had family problems as children, and have carried their emotional experiences into adult relationships. These experiences can make a person love avoidant, because the type of love they know is painful. The feelings of pain associated with this unhealthy “love” can cause individuals to create emotional barriers while feeling the desire to maintain control, which can become ingrained in a person throughout his or her adult life. People who develop these behaviors may experience low self-esteem or self-loathing. Ironically, while the need for constant validation drives destructive behavior and makes it virtually impossible to conduct a healthy relationship, the same need for validation keeps codependents constantly in relationships, even after they become unhealthy. It becomes a downward spiral of harmful relationships until the root of the problem is addressed.

Maybe someone has told you before that you are self-destructive. You may need to conduct a self-evaluation to determine if they are right. If you are indeed self-destructive, you likely avoid healthy relationships because you feel unworthy, exhibiting love avoidant characteristics. Fear of abandonment is familiar, and you pursue relationships that you believe will not last. You also may work too hard to please, while trying to control. A codependent person may become stuck in a cycle of unhealthy relationships, due to their belief that they are not worthy of love and that everyone will eventually leave.

A codependent relationship is partially characterized by the expectation of reciprocation. You give not for your partner’s sake, but because you expect gratitude and rewards in return. This sets up a pattern of conditional love. While most people view this as wrong, to a love avoidant person, all love is conditional because they feel unworthy of unconditional love. This is a form of self-sabotage, because you create a cycle of expectations that cannot be met, followed by self-loathing when they aren’t fulfilled.

If you find yourself exhibiting these irrational thoughts and behaviors, you probably also continually find yourself in love avoidant relationships where true love cannot blossom. If you notice this pattern in yourself, you should consider seeking professional help to get to the root of the issue. Once you understand why you repeat the same relationship problems, you can begin to have healthy relationships without obsessive or conditional love.

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Immobilienmakler Heidelberg
Der Immoblienmakler für Heidelberg Mannheim und Karlsruhe
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Source by William G. Heart